Disagreements and conflicts are a part and parcel of our daily lives, whether we are at home, at work, or among friends.But what matters most is not just that a disagreement happens, but how we choose to approach it.BK Sister Shivani’s words tell us that many problems become bigger when they are discussed indirectly, repeated to many other people, and carried forward through gossip or emotional venting.So, she advises us to take up a more mature stance and peacefully handle tension by facing the person, not the crowd.
Quote of the day
When there is a conflict, talk to them instead of talking about them. The more people know about our problem, the more vibrations will be created about our problem. The more perspectives will get added to our problem. It’s the easiest way to intensify our problem.
BK Sister Shivani
What does the quote mean?
When BK Sister Shivani says, “When there is a conflict, talk to them instead of talking about them,” she gives a very practical life lesson. The quote means that if we have a problem with someone, we should speak directly to that person in a respectful way rather than discussing and gossiping about twat happened and what they did to you.What she means to convey is that indirect talks usually do not solve the issue. Instead, it often adds more emotion, confusion, and negativity to something that may already be difficult.
More negativity gets added to the problem as we talk about the problem instead of solving it
“The more people know about our problem, the more vibrations will be created about our problem.”And this simply means that the more we spread a conflict around, the more people get involved emotionally. Each person may add their own opinion, judgment, or bias. That can make the original issue feel larger and more pessimistic than it really is.BK Shivani’s teaching is that talking about the problem repeatedly can strengthen it in our mind, while calm and direct communication can begin to dissolve it.