Psychology explains why some people struggle to say no even when they are exhausted; what people-pleasing reveals about boundaries, approval and the fear of disappointing others

Psychology explains why some people struggle to say no even when they are exhausted; what people-pleasing reveals about boundaries, approval and the fear of disappointing others

AI representation/ChatGPT You have had a long day, your own work is unfinished, and you barely have the energy to rest. Then a colleague asks you to take on another task, a friend needs a favour or a family member expects you to make time for them. You want to say no, but instead you…

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The surprising reason some adults become people-pleaser since childhood, according to psychologists

The surprising reason some adults become people-pleaser since childhood, according to psychologists

Some people apologise even when they have done nothing wrong. Others struggle to say “no”, constantly put everyone else’s needs before their own, or feel guilty for setting even the smallest boundary. While these behaviours are often praised as signs of kindness or selflessness, psychologists say they can sometimes point to something much deeper. People-pleasing…

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